I grew up in Georgia a preacher’s kid, eating a heavy diet of southern black Baptism. I closely followed the parental brick road to graduate college (twice), get a good job, marry a nice and good-looking guy, buy a decent house, and have two children. It was a story, but not fully or genuinely my story. After a slow exodus from organized religion and an even slower divorce, I said “hello” to true me and found my joyful place.

Shortly after, I authored the award-winning novel,  A Most Useful Betrothal. It imagines how the wise and beautiful biblical Abyga’el ended up married to a fool and how she finally taps her wisdom to see herself and find peace. The whimsical and tender story is also a parable of my experience and how smart, attractive women can make choices that land us in situations and predicaments, most often steered by false narratives about ourselves.

I enjoy telling such stories. Hopefully, good stories that resonate and move us forward.

I also like playing tennis; ripping a forehand gives me a surge of euphoria. Like Beyonce performing live on her Renaissance World Tour. Coming close to it for me is a long walk in the sunshine, laughing with friends while playing cards, and experimenting with plant-based recipes then charming my family to try them.

If you have serious ideas for topics or a collaboration, please e-mail me at netta@nettafei.com. I would enjoy e-chatting with you.